Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Meerkats = Small Groups?

Last night on the news I saw the strangest story. Apparently there is a show called Merrkat Manor on The Animal Planet which is a huge hit. I don't personally know because we have neither cable nor satellite and before you think we're freaks, yes, we want it that way.

From what I gather, this self-acclaimed reality show follows a family of meerkats through their every day existence. I admit from the clips I saw, they are pretty darn cute too. But here is the part that got me....ready?

People are so enthralled with this show they have meerkat parties, they dress up, they celebrate this family of critters that march across their screen each week. There was even mourning when the lead female met her demise at the bite of a snake. Initially I laughed at how ludicrous this is. Then I was saddened. These individuals have a deep desire for community and they find it through television. What does that say about their lives?

The truth is, we all have the desire to be part of a group of people with shared interest, acceptance, love, and purpose. This is the entire premise of a "holistic small group". Basically a group that loves and cares about its members, that encourages and edifies them, that walks through the dark times with each other, facilitates growth in Christ, and reaches others for Christ.

As demonstrated in this bizarre television-land-way, people really long for this. They may not always know what exactly that desire is, but it's definitely there, and it's the job of churches to make it clear and point people that way.

This is why Steve and I are so passionate about small groups. When done right, they are amazing! Yes, there is room for hurt and conflict, but in the proper environment, these issues are dealt with and deep, meaningful, lasting relationships are made. We grow as disciples and we have a tool to reach our families, friends, and neighbors with the gospel.

And if we're to be like Christ, then a small group should be on the checklist. He led a small group - remember them? The 12 disciples?

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